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What Parents Need to Know when Disability Impacts Behavior and Discipline at School

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Behavior is a form of communication. When a student struggles with behavior at school, it may be a sign that they need additional support, services, accommodations, or instruction. For students with disabilities, schools must look beyond discipline and consider what will help the student participate meaningfully in school. Repeated requests for early pickup, shortened school days, suspensions, or other lost instructional time can be signs that a different approach is needed to keep the student engaged in learning and making progress at school.

A Brief Overview

  • Behavior support can be part of a student’s right to Free Appropriate Public Education (FAPE).
  • Schools must consider a student’s disability-related needs when behavior affects learning.
  • Repeated requests for early pickup, shortened school days, suspensions, or other lost instructional time can be signs that a different approach is needed to keep a student engaged in learning and making progress at school.
  • Families can request evaluations, school meetings, and the development or revision of behavioral supports.
  • Students continue to have educational rights during disciplinary removals.
  • Families have the right to ask questions, request records, and seek review or appeal when they disagree with discipline decisions.

Introduction

This article explains how school discipline can overlap with disability rights when behavior is connected to a student’s disability, trauma, or unmet support needs. It focuses on these practical questions:

  • When should families ask for evaluation or behavior support?
  • What counts as a removal from school?
  • What must schools consider before relying on suspension, expulsion, shortened school days, or other removals?
  • What rights do students and families have when they disagree with discipline decisions?

When Is Behavior a Sign That More Support Is Needed?

Students with disabilities have the right to the supports and services they need to learn and participate in school, a protection known as Free Appropriate Public Education (FAPE). Guidance from the Office for Civil Rights (OCR) explains that FAPE includes services, supports, and accommodations designed to meet a student’s individual needs, as well as training for school staff so they understand those needs and can effectively implement the student’s supports.

When behavior affects learning, participation, or access to instruction, schools should consider what additional supports, accommodations, services, instruction, or interventions may be needed. The goal is not simply to stop a behavior, but to understand what the behavior may be communicating and identify strategies that help the student succeed.

Behavior supports can take many forms, including:

  • Accommodations
  • Counseling or behavioral health services
  • Social-emotional instruction
  • Positive behavioral supports
  • Changes to an Individualized Education Program (IEP) or Section 504 Plan
  • Behavioral assessment and planning

Schools are required to provide education and support before resorting to discipline for children who struggle with behavior because of their impairments. According to OCR, individualized behavioral supports may include counseling, school social worker services, school-based mental health services, physical activity, and opportunities for a student to visit a counselor or behavioral coach when they need time and space to self-regulate. Counseling and other behavioral health supports can also be written into an IEP as related services when educationally necessary for FAPE.

When Should Families Ask for an Evaluation, Functional Behavior Assessment (FBA), or Behavioral Intervention Plan (BIP)?

An evaluation can be requested at any time if a disability may be affecting a child’s education. Schools also have a responsibility to evaluate when there is reason to suspect a disability is affecting learning, behavior, attendance, or participation in school.

An evaluation or school meeting may be helpful if:

  • A student is frequently suspended.
  • A student is often sent home because of behavior.
  • Behavior is interfering with learning.
  • Existing supports are not working.
  • School staff report ongoing concerns.
  • Instructional time is being lost because of behavior-related issues.

Section 504 does not limit the number of evaluations a student may reasonably request or receive. OCR guidance states that families may request an evaluation at any time and at public expense. Schools also have a responsibility to evaluate when there is reason to believe a disability is affecting a student’s education, known as Child Find.

A Functional Behavioral Assessment (FBA) is a type of evaluation used to better understand the reasons behind challenging behaviors and identify strategies that may help. An FBA is not required before asking for behavior supports. The IEP or 504 team can discuss behavior concerns, review existing supports, and consider changes to a student’s IEP, 504 Plan, or behavior supports at any time. PAVE offers a Sample Letter to Request a Functional Behavioral Assessment, available for download in multiple languages.

One type of behavior support is a Behavior Intervention Plan (BIP). A BIP is a working document that the school and family develop together and review regularly to help a student succeed at school. It focuses on positive supports, skill building, and encouragement rather than punishment.

A BIP may include strategies to:

  • Teach new skills and replacement behaviors
  • Increase positive supports and reinforcement
  • Reduce barriers to learning and participation
  • Prevent future challenges and escalation.

The information gathered through an FBA can be used to develop, review, or revise a BIP when current strategies are not meeting a student’s needs.

More information about participating in the FBA/BIP process is available in PAVE’s video training, Behavior and School: How to Participate in the FBA/BIP Process.

What Happens When Behavior Leads to Discipline?

Washington’s student-discipline rules encourage schools to keep students connected to learning whenever possible and to use responses that are fair and consistent. In 2025, the Office of Superintendent of Public Instruction (OSPI) updated the student-discipline rules and added a definition for discretionary discipline, which refers to situations where school staff have flexibility in choosing how to respond to behavior. Rather than using the same consequence every time, staff may consider the circumstances before deciding on a response.

A student may be removed from a classroom, instructional area, or activity when behavior substantially disrupts learning or creates safety concerns. This type of action is often called a classroom exclusion (WAC 392-400) Time away from the classroom may last for the remainder of the school day, up to the following two school days, or until the teacher and principal (or designee) have met, whichever occurs first. If the exclusion extends beyond those limits, it may be considered a suspension and additional requirements may apply.

District policies must include procedures for informing parents when classroom exclusions occur. Notification must be provided in a language families can understand.

Questions to consider include:

  • Why was the student removed?
  • How long will the exclusion last?
  • What support will help the student return successfully?
  • How is the removal being documented?

Washington’s discipline rules also:

  • Encourage schools to minimize suspensions and expulsions and focus on evidence-based approaches that keep students engaged in learning.
  • Prohibit exclusion because of absences or tardiness.
  • Require absences related to mental health to be excused.
  • Limit exclusionary discipline for behaviors that do not present a safety threat.
  • Require educational services during suspensions and expulsions.

What Counts as a Removal From School?

Any disciplinary action that takes a student away from their regular educational placement can count as a removal from school.

Examples of removals include:

  • Out-of-school suspension
  • In-school suspension
  • Expulsion
  • Emergency removal
  • Removal from class, activities, or part of the school day because of behavior

These actions are also referred to as exclusionary discipline because they remove a student from some or all of their educational program.

Repeated requests to pick up a student early can result in significant missed instruction. Understanding how these removals are affecting the student’s school day can start with a few key questions:

  • How much instruction is my child missing?
  • Are these removals being documented?
  • Why is my child being removed instead of receiving additional support?
  • Does my child need an evaluation, new accommodations, or additional services?

A shortened school day should not be an automatic response to behavior challenges. Before reducing a student’s school day, schools should consider whether additional supports, services, accommodations, instruction, or behavioral interventions could help the student participate successfully in a full day.

If the school reduces a student’s schedule because of behavior, the change could be considered a suspension. OCR’s guidance points out that a shortened school day is an example of a significant change of placement, and that placement changes require a re-evaluation process.

What Rights Continue During Suspensions and Other Removals?

A student’s right to education does not end because of a disciplinary removal. Washington law requires schools to provide educational services during suspensions, expulsions, and emergency removals (WAC 392-400-610). Educational services should help students continue participating in the general education curriculum and making educational progress.

When a student is suspended or expelled, families have the right to ask how educational services will continue, including:

  • What educational services will be provided?
  • How will instruction be delivered?
  • How will assignments be completed?
  • Who should we contact with questions?
  • How will progress be monitored?

Educational services provided in an alternative setting must enable the student to:

  • Continue to participate in the general education curriculum
  • Meet the educational standards established within the district
  • Complete subject, grade-level, and graduation requirements.

Schools must report disciplinary and emergency removals to both the parent or guardian and the state. Written notice must include:

  • A description of the student’s behavior and how it violated district discipline policy.
  • The length of the suspension or expulsion.
  • Information about educational services.
  • Information about the right to request a conference.
  • Information about appeal rights.

The school district must provide notice in a language the student and parent or guardian can understand, including interpretation or translation when needed (WAC 392-400-455). 

What Happens When Families Disagree With a School’s Decision?

Families have the right to ask questions and request information when they disagree with disciplinary actions, evaluation decision, placement change, or denial of services.

Requests may include:

  • Written notice explaining the decision
  • School records related to the incident
  • An evaluation or reevaluation
  • An IEP or Section 504 meeting
  • An FBA or BIP
  • Information about educational services
  • Information about available appeal or dispute-resolution options

Washington’s discipline rules include procedures for notice, conferences, review, and appeals. Students receiving special education services may also have additional protections when disciplinary removals become lengthy or repeated.

When families disagree with decisions about evaluation, services, placement, or discipline, federal and state laws provide rights and dispute-resolution options. PAVE’s articles on dispute resolution and procedural safeguards offer practical guidance for understanding available options and next steps.

If a concern involves disability discrimination, an Office for Civil Rights (OCR) complaint may also be an option.

Learn More

The Governor’s Office of the Education Ombuds (OEO) provides information about Discipline, Suspensions, and Expulsions, and options for resolving concerns when families disagree with school decisions.

Schools are guided by the state to use best practices when evaluating and serving students with special needs. OSPI’s Model Forms for Services to Students in Special Education webpage has links to downloadable forms schools use to develop IEPs, Section 504 Plans, and more, including:

PAVE provides a Behavioral Health Toolkit that includes a video to support development of a Behavior Intervention Plan (BIP).

The Office of Special Education Programs (OSEP) issued guidance in July 2022 that describes federal work underway to improve behavioral supports and reduce disciplinary removal of students receiving special education services. OSEP’s Dear Colleague Letter includes links to a Q and A document about disciplinary requirements and A Guide for Stakeholders.

Sample Letter to Request a Functional Behavioral Assessment

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Families can formally request a Functional Behavioral Assessment (FBA) when a student’s behavior interferes with learning. This process helps schools identify the root causes of behavioral challenges and develop a Behavior Intervention Plan (BIP) to support the student’s success.

A Brief Overview

  • When a student’s behavior disrupts learning, schools are responsible for identifying the cause and implementing positive interventions.
  • A Functional Behavioral Assessment (FBA) gathers data to inform a Behavior Intervention Plan (BIP), which outlines strategies to support the student.
  • If a student with disabilities is disciplined, a Manifestation Determination meeting may be required to assess whether the behavior is linked to their disability. If so, the school must adjust services and may need to initiate or revise a BIP.
  • Families have the right to request an FBA at any time and should do so in writing to ensure clarity and documentation. They may include input from outside providers, and schools must respond with written rationale.
  • Requesting behavioral support does not mean removing a student from general education. Special education services must be provided in the Least Restrictive Environment (LRE) whenever possible.
  • Families can use the downloadable Sample Letter to Request an FBA—available in multiple languages—to formally initiate the FBA process. The letter may be sent via email, regular mail, or delivered in person. Families should keep copies of all correspondence for their records.

Introduction

When a student’s behavior gets in the way of their learning and/or the learning of others, the school is responsible to figure out how to support behavioral expectations. One way to do that is to assess why the student might be acting out and use that information to consider how positive behavioral interventions might teach the student what to do instead.

A Functional Behavioral Assessment (FBA) is one way schools gather information to understand why a student may be struggling with behavior. The data collected through an FBA helps the team develop a Behavior Intervention Plan (BIP), which outlines strategies and supports tailored to the student’s needs. Families can request an FBA in writing, and this article includes a sample letter to help start that process.

When behavior patterns begin to interfere with learning, it’s best for schools to respond early—before disciplinary action is considered. A proactive approach allows the team to identify what the student needs and how to support them in the classroom. This may include reviewing current services, adding supports, or conducting an FBA to guide the development of a BIP. Families can participate in this process. PAVE provides a video training called Behavior and School: How to Participate in the FBA/BIP Process that offers helpful guidance for understanding each step. Early intervention can prevent unnecessary discipline, as explained in PAVE’s article, What Parents Need to Know when Disability Impacts Behavior and Discipline at School.

A teacher or school administrator might alert parents and request consent to begin an FBA. The Office of Superintendent of Public Instruction (OSPI) is the state agency for Washington schools. OSPI provides guidance about discipline in a Technical Assistance Paper (TAP #2). Included are best practices for schools to follow when there are persistent behavioral concerns:

  • Develop behavioral goals in the Individualized Education Program (IEP)
  • Provide related services needed to achieve those behavioral IEP goals (specific therapies or counseling, for example)
  • Provide classroom accommodations, modifications and/or supplementary aids and supports (a 1:1 paraeducator, for example)
  • Provide support to the student’s teachers and service providers (staff training)
  • Conduct a reevaluation that includes a Functional Behavioral Assessment (FBA)
  • Develop a Behavioral Intervention Plan (BIP), as defined in the Washington Administrative Code (WAC 392-172A-01031) 

Manifestation Determination

If an FBA process begins after a student has been excluded from school through a disciplinary removal (suspension, expulsion, or emergency expulsion), families can review their procedural safeguards to understand rules related to a special education process called Manifestation Determination.

Here are the basics: When a behavior “manifests” (is directly caused by) a disability condition, then there is recognition that the student has limited fault for violating the student code of conduct. Management of behavior is part of the special education process. A Manifestation Determination meeting is to talk about how a student’s services can better serve their needs to prevent future behavioral episodes that are getting in the way of education.

Students with Individualized Education Programs (IEPs) may not be excluded from their regular educational placement, due to discipline, for more than 10 days in a school year without the school and family holding a Manifestation Determination meeting. According to the Washington Administrative Code (WAC 392-172A-05146), the student’s behavior is considered a manifestation of disability if the conduct was:

  • Caused by, or had a direct and substantial relationship to, the student’s disability
  • The direct result of the school district’s failure to implement student’s IEP

When these criteria are met, the school is responsible to review and amend the student’s services to ensure that the behaviors are addressed to prevent future escalations. If there isn’t a BIP, the school is required to develop one by initiating an FBA. If there is a BIP, the school is required to review and amend it to better serve the student’s needs.

Request FBA Formally, in Writing

Family caregivers can request an FBA/BIP process any time there are concerns that a student’s behavior is a barrier to their education. Families have the right to participate in all educational decision making for their students.

Make any request for an evaluation in writing. This is important because:

  1. There will be no confusion about how/when/why request was made.
  2. The letter provides critical initial information about what is going on with the student.
  3. The letter supports a written record of family/school interactions.

If the family wishes, they can attach information from outside providers with their request. For example, if an outside therapist or counselor has recommendations for behavioral interventions at school, the family has the option to share those. The school district is responsible to review all documents and respond with written rationale about how the information is incorporated into recommendations. Families may choose to disclose all, a portion, or none of a student’s medical information. Schools may not require disclosure of medical records.

Family caregivers/guardians must sign consent for any school evaluation to begin.

The FBA/BIP Might Prevent a Shortened School Day

According to OSPI, serving a student through a Behavior Intervention Plan (BIP) is a priority. OSPI discourages schools from reducing the student’s schedule because of behaviors:

“District authorities should not use a shortened school day as an automatic response to students with challenging behaviors at school or use a shortened day as a form of punishment or as a substitute for a BIP. An IEP team should consider developing an IEP that includes a BIP describing the use of positive behavioral interventions, supports, and strategies reasonably calculated to address the student’s behavioral needs and enable the student to participate in the full school day.”

A shortened school day should not be used to manage behavior when other supports have not been tried. OSPI’s Tips from the Special Education Division: Shortened School Days explains that an IEP team is encouraged to review current services, add supports, or conduct an FBA to better understand the behavior and determine appropriate next steps. The team can then use that information to update or create a BIP that includes strategies to help the student succeed.

Any change to a student’s schedule must be based on their individual needs. Decisions should reflect what the student requires to access their education—not general policies or broader operational considerations. If a student is sent home early without proper documentation or team discussion, that may count as a classroom exclusion or suspension. These actions can trigger protections under IDEA and must follow the correct process.

If the team decides a shortened day is needed, the IEP must explain why and include a plan to help the student return to a full day. The team should look at all options before making this decision and keep records of what was discussed and agreed upon. A shortened day should be temporary, based on data, and reviewed regularly to make sure the student is making progress.

Special Education is a service, not a location within the school

Please note that a request for behavioral support is NOT a recommendation to remove a student from the regular classroom and move them into an exclusive learning environment. Federal and state laws require that students eligible for special education services receive their education in the Least Restrictive Environment (LRE) to the maximum extent appropriate.

As further explained in PAVE’s article, Special Education is a Service, Not a Place, special education refers to the supports a student receives, while LRE refers to placement.

General education classrooms and spaces are the least restrictive. A child may be placed in a more restrictive setting if an IEP team, which includes family participants, determines that FAPE is not accessible even with specially designed instruction, accommodations, modifications, ancillary aids, behavioral interventions and supports, and other documented attempts to support a Free Appropriate Public Education (FAPE) within the general education environment.

If the student was removed from their previous placement prior to a manifestation determination meeting, the school district is responsible to return the student to their placement unless the parent and school district agree to a different placement as part of the modification of the student’s services on their IEP and BIP.

Sample Letter to Request an FBA

Below is a sample letter family caregivers can use when requesting a Functional Behavioral Assessment (FBA). You can cut and paste the text into your choice of word processing program to help you start a letter that you can print and mail or attach to an email. Or you can build your letter directly into an email format. Be sure to keep a record of all requests and correspondence with the school. If sending through email, the format can be adjusted to exclude street addresses.

Download the Sample Letter to Request a Functional Behavioral Assessment (FBA) in:
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You can email this letter or send it by certified mail (keep your receipt), or hand carry it to the district office and get a date/time receipt. Remember to keep a copy of this letter and all school-related correspondence for your records. Get organized with a binder or a filing system that will help you keep track of all letters, meetings, conversations, etc. These documents will be important for you and your child for many years to come, including when your child transitions out of school.

Final Thoughts

Navigating behavioral challenges in school can feel overwhelming, but families are not alone. Understanding the FBA and BIP process empowers caregivers to advocate for meaningful support that addresses the root causes of a student’s behavior. When families participate actively and make requests in writing, they help ensure that schools respond with thoughtful, individualized strategies that promote learning and inclusion.

Behavior is a form of communication. By working collaboratively with educators and service providers, families can help shape a learning environment that recognizes each student’s unique needs and strengths. With the right supports in place, students can thrive academically, socially, and emotionally—building confidence and resilience for lifelong success.

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Children Do Well if They Can: A Behavioral Strategy from Ross Greene

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Child Expert Ross Greene wants adults to rethink the way they support children who struggle with their behavior. He offers two reasons children behave in unexpected ways:

  • Lagging skills
  • Unsolved problems

Greene says about 80 percent of problem behaviors at school are due to academic struggles and the rest are related to social inadequacies. To help children make good choices and participate in their education, he says, adults need to collaborate with children to help them learn the skills they need and solve problems that are getting in the way.

PAVE was among state agencies that collaborated to offer an online training for educators and families that Greene provided near the end of 2022. That training, Children Do Well if They Can, is available on-demand. Greene says adults are misguided when they presume children do well only if they want to.

“There is 0 research telling us that kids respond poorly to problems and frustrations because they’re poorly motivated,” Greene says. “That study doesn’t exist. There’s a mountain of research telling us that they’re lacking skills. What skills? Here are the umbrella skills: flexibility, adaptability, frustration tolerance, problem-solving, emotion regulation.”

Families that agree with Ross Greene’s approach can tell the school they want to follow this model in rethinking a student’s supports at school. The lagging skills and unsolved problems can be addressed through a well-built Individualized Education Program (IEP) with a positive behavior support plan, Greene says.

A key point is that “escalation” is downstream. The unsolved problems and lagging skills are addressed “upstream,” before a troubling behavior shows up. For example, an accommodation to support a student “when frustrated” is downstream. If adults instead figure out what problem is causing frustration, they can collaborate with the child to solve that problem and prevent frustration.

If, for example, a child is not learning to read at the same rate as peers, the child might need to be taught reading in an individualized way to have success in reading and regain confidence. That might solve a long-term problem. If the student instead takes a break every time they get frustrated, they might never get better at reading. The problem is pushed down the road.

Greene provides a questionnaire for families and schools to start with—before they discuss what needs to be in the IEP or behavior plan. His form is called the ALSUP—Assessment of Lagging Skills and Unsolved Problems.

The video, Children Do Well if They Can, is about 2 hours and includes comments by Washington State leaders who are proposing an end to isolation/restraint practices in schools. Greene’s presentation lasts about an hour and begins about 15 minutes into the video.

PAVE provides many resources to support families whose children are missing educational opportunities due to behavior. Type the word “behavior” or “discipline” into the search bar to explore other options. Here are places to begin:

Discipline and Disability Rights: What to do if Your Child is Being Sent Home

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Learning the skills to maintain expected behavior and follow school rules is part of education. All students learn social, emotional and behavioral skills. Students with disabilities may get extra help in these areas of learning. Some have individualized behavior support plans.

When the pre-teaching and interventions fail to stop a behavior from causing a problem, the school might call a parent to say, “Take them home.” What happens next could depend on how well-informed parents are about the rights of students with disabilities.

This video provides key information about what to do if your child is being sent home. The first thing to ask is, “Are they being suspended?” If the answer is yes, the school is required to file specific paperwork. If the answer is no, a parent has choices and may support better long-term outcomes by carefully documenting what happens next.

Below are links to resources referenced in the video:

Transcript of Discipline and Disability Rights: What to do if Your Child is Being Sent Home

Learning the skills to maintain expected behavior and follow school rules is part of education. All students learn social, emotional and behavioral skills. Students with special needs may get extra help in these areas of learning. Some have individualized behavior support plans.

When the pre-teaching and interventions fail to stop behavior from causing a problem, the school might call a parent to say, “Take them home.” What happens next could depend on how well-informed parents are about the rights of students with disabilities. This video provides key information to help.

First let’s talk about what exclusionary discipline means. If school staff remove a student from the place they are supposed to be during school, because of their behavior, then it’s exclusionary discipline. Out-of-school suspensions, expulsions, and in-school suspensions count. An in-school suspension might mean getting sent to the office, for example.

Informal removals like when the school calls parents to take a child home because of their behavior is exclusionary discipline if parents feel they have no choice. A regularly shortened school day also may be a form of exclusionary discipline if the school offers this as the only option.

These final two points might seem like a surprise. Let’s clarify a few things. It’s important to know who is making the decisions. If the family chooses to take a child home early because they aren’t feeling well physically or mentally, then it’s not exclusionary discipline.

If an IEP or Section 504 team decides it’s in the student s best interests to attend school for fewer hours, then it’s not disciplinary. If a teacher takes a student into the hallway for a short chat before returning to class, then it likely doesn’t count as a disciplinary action.

Disciplinary removal from school is a decision made unilaterally by the school. If the family

believes they have no option but to take their child home or if the school imposes a shorter

day without having a meeting to talk it through, then it counts as exclusionary discipline.

The school would essentially be changing a student s placement without the consent of

the school-and-family team in charge of those decisions.

We need to know a few things about student rights to fully unpack this topic, so here’s a quick take  on student rights. They are shown here as a pyramid. All students have rights at the bottom. Students with special educational services are at the top and have all these rights.

Special education rights are protected by a federal law called the IDEA the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act. IDEA protects the rights of students with Individualized Education Programs IEPs. IDEA has specific rules about what has to happen when a student with an IEP is excluded from school for behavior.

A student s Civil Rights are protected by federal laws also. The United States Office for Civil Rights OCR upholds these laws and provides specific guidance about what schools have to do when they discipline students with disabilities. Civil Rights laws protect students with IEPs, students with Section 504 Plans, and students with known or suspected disabilities who need to be evaluated to see if they are eligible for services. Sometimes discipline is the reason a student is evaluated to determine eligibility for services.

General Education Rights are protected by ESSA, which stands for Every Student Succeeds Act. Every child in the United States has the right to attend school, regardless of life circumstances that might include disability, poverty, racism, unstable housing, citizenship status, or something else. The public school responsible for serving a student cannot send them away without following specific state and federal rules.

To uphold the rights of students, schools are responsible to teach expected behavior in culturally appropriate ways and to help students stay in school and learning. The US Department of Education provides information about student rights. In July 2022, the Departments Office for Civil Rights published a 41-page document describing the rules schools must follow when they discipline students with disabilities. That document is called Supporting  Students with Disabilities and Avoiding the Discriminatory Use of Student Discipline under Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act of 1973.

The document includes information that students with disabilities and students who are Black, Indigenous, or People of Color are disciplined at higher rates. BIPOC students with disabilities are the most impacted by discriminatory policies and practices. As part of their responsibility to support inclusion, schools may not exclude students in ways that discriminate. Knowing that schools are responsible to teach and cannot send students away without going through a formal, well-documented process, what’s a parent to do if the school calls and says to take the student home?

The rest of this presentation provides some guidance, summarized on this slide. The first step is to ask whether the student is being suspended. Requesting paperwork and tracking missed time is critical to hold the school accountable. An important number in this process is 10 that s how many days a student with a disability can miss due to discipline before the school is responsible to host a specific meeting called manifestation determination.

More about that in a moment. Communication is critical to improving outcomes when a student’s behavior is interfering with school. Families can ask for regular information about a student s behavior, and schools can send data tracking sheets home to make sure everyone knows how things are going. Let’s unpack these five points.

For a student to be sent home, the behavior must be severely disruptive or dangerous. If that’s what’s happening, then your child is being suspended or emergency expelled. Schools must report suspensions and expulsions to the family and to the state. If the school calls and asks you to take your student home, Step 1 is to ask: Are they being suspended?

If a student is being formally excluded from school because of their behavior, state law requires written notice to parents that includes: A description of what they did wrong including what school rule was broken Dates that the suspension starts and ends What the school tried first that didn’t work and why they chose to send the child home How the student will be provided education while away from school Information that the student and parents have the right to meet with a school administrator to talk about what happened And information about the family s right to appeal the action.

Note that all this information must be provided in a language and format that is accessible to the family. If the school says the student isn’t being formally suspended, then parents have choices. They can take the student home and call it a mental health day. Washington law requires schools to accept behavioral health reasons for students to be absent. On this slide are

a few questions families may want to consider asking:

  • Parents can ask for a meeting to talk about services. If the student doesn’t have a Section
  • 504 Plan or an IEP, it might be time to request an evaluation to see about eligibility for services. If the student doesn’t have a positive behavior support plan, a meeting could be arranged to talk about that option.
  • Parents might say they want the student to stay at school and ask for information about how and where education will be provided if the student stays. Parents can request paperwork about what happened and what the school tried before calling home.
  • Be sure to ask how the school will record the absence if the student leaves school.
  • Will it be excused, unexcused, or recorded as exclusionary discipline?

One reason it’s important to document every time a student is sent away for behavior is a specific special education process called Manifestation Determination. Manifestation Determination is a formal name for a meeting where the school and family talk about what happened and decide whether the behavior was directly related to the student s disability.

If yes, the team determines that the behavior was a manifestation of disability. In that case, it’s especially important to consider what additional supports are needed to scaffold the student’s behavior doesn’t keep interrupting school and learning. Manifestation Determination is required when a student with disabilities misses 10 or more days of school because of behavior. Those days might include partial days, informal suspensions, and in-school suspension.

A Manifestation Determination meeting includes discussion about whether an IEP, Section 504 Plan, or behavior support plan is being followed appropriately and whether it’s got everything the student needs to successfully learn expected behaviors. If no, the team is responsible to make changes. That might mean gathering more information through an evaluation or bringing together more expertise from the district or outside providers. The team may discuss changing the student s placement.

Washington s state educational agency, OSPI, provides detailed information about manifestation determination and other disciplinary rules for students with disabilities. One place to get that information is a Technical Assistance Paper called TAP #2, available through OSPI s website, which is k12.wa.gov. PAVE provides a link on the page where you clicked to watch this video.

Here is a general tip for parents to prepare for ups and downs. If parents tell the school they want to know the good, the bad, and the ugly, they are setting up a communication pathway for whatever happens. Hopefully, collaborative problem-solving will result. For example, knowing what’s going well will help everyone support the student to build on strengths. Knowing what’s not going well might prevent problems from getting worse. Saying you want to know the ugly might help the school understand that you want to work together and don’t want them to gloss over a behavioral incident by sending your student home without an official suspension, for example. When every trouble is treated as a chance to learn and improve, progress can accelerate.

Here s a PAVE resource that might provide additional information you’re looking for. On our home page, under the calendar, is a Behavioral Health Toolkit, with information about crisis systems, school-based services, medical systems, family support agencies, advocacy opportunities, and more. Within the behavioral health toolkit is a video about best practices for supporting behavior at school. A Functional Behavioral Assessment is called an FBA. That assessment can gather information for schools and families to develop a positive behavior support plan.

The name for that plan is BIP Behavior Intervention Plan. PAVE s video can help families and schools work to make sure the FBA and BIP are unbiased and built to teach a student what they can choose instead of behaviors that are leading to problems. PAVE provides a sample letter requesting an FBA. Look for it within our toolkit of sample letters.

This training is provided by Parent Training and Information (PTI), a program of PAVE. Our non-profit has been helping families in Washington State since 1979. Students, family members, and professionals can get direct assistance by going to our website, wapave.org, and clicking Get Help. We provide language translation options. Your can also leave a message by phone to request help: 800-572-7368. If you need help with the accessibility of any of our resources, please let us know. This slide is a reminder that PAVE is not a legal service agency and cannot provide advocacy, advice or legal representation. Our goal is to empower families by providing information and access to resources.

Thank you for listening and learning today and for being an advocate for someone with unique needs! Remember that it’s not your job to hold up the entire world and that you need time to care for yourself and recharge your batteries. Please practice self-care and make sure your own social-emotional needs are a priority. PAVE is here to help at wapave.org.

Social Emotional Learning, Part 3: Tools for Regulation and Resiliency

Posted on by Nicol Walsh

A Brief Overview

  • Children who are taught self-regulation are more resilient and learn better in academics and more. This article describes a few practical tools and techniques that are aspects of Social Emotional Learning (SEL).
  • “Kids do well if they can,” says Ross W. Greene, a child psychologist and author. In a short YouTube video, Greene says, “The biggest favor you can do a challenging kid is to finally, at long last, be the person who figures out what’s getting in his way.”
  • PAVE provides additional articles about Social Emotional Learning.
  • Washington’s Office of Superintendent of Public Instruction (OSPI) provides SEL learning activities for families and educators. OSPI also provides free online SEL training, links to information about SEL state learning standards, and more on the Social and Emotional Learning page of its website: k12.wa.us.

Full Article

When children act out at school, what does the teacher do? The answer depends on the discipline policies of the school, but research indicates that suspending and expelling students is ineffective for improving behavior and can cause harm (NIH.gov).

Social Emotional Learning (SEL) in schools marks a shift toward education that promotes self-regulation, resiliency, problem-solving skills, and more. “Kids do well if they can,” says Ross W. Greene, who explains his statement in a short YouTube video. Greene is a clinical child psychologist and author of the books The Explosive Child, Lost at School, Lost & Found, and Raising Human Beings.

By accepting the logic that kids do well if they can, adults shift away from believing that kids behave only if they “want to” and allows for problem-solving, Greene says: “The biggest favor you can do a challenging kid is to finally, at long last, be the person who figures out what’s getting in the way [of doing well].”

Behavior is communication: “Get curious, not furious”

Adults can consider behavior as a form of communication and seek to understand the function of the behavior. One educator refers to this approach as “Getting Curious (Not Furious) With Students.” In the article, posted to Edutopia.org June 29, 2016, Rebecca Alber says, “When teachers get curious instead of furious, they don’t take the student’s behavior personally, and they don’t act on anger. They respond to student behaviors rather than react to them.”

Alber lists the primary benefits to schools when they promote SEL and trauma-informed approaches to discipline:

  • Improved student academic achievement
  • Less student absences, detentions, and suspensions
  • Reduction of stress for staff and students and less bullying and harassment
  • Improved teacher sense of job satisfaction and safety

Tip: Request a Functional Behavior Assessment

A Functional Behavioral Assessment (FBA) may be necessary in circumstances where behavior consistently impedes learning. Schools can use FBA data to build an individualized Behavior Intervention Plan (BIP). A BIP may support an Individualized Education Program (IEP) or could be a stand-alone plan for any student.

When using positive behavior support strategies, adults can avoid judging behavior with labels such as bad, non-compliant, defiant, uncooperative, etc. Researchers have found that those labels often refer to adult perception and frustration about what is happening more than they explain what a child may be trying to express.

Family caregivers might read through a student’s Individualized Education Program (IEP), a behavior plan, disciplinary referrals, or other notes from the school to notice what type of language is being used to describe what’s happening. Requesting a meeting to discuss an FBA and/or strategy for SEL skill-building is an option.

Raw moments are opportunities to teach from the heart

Heather T. Forbes, author of Help for Billy, is among professionals designing new ways to help children cope and learn. Emotional instruction is crucial, argues Forbes, whose website, Beyond Consequences, shares Trauma-Informed Solutions for parents, schools, and other professionals.

“It is in the moments when your child or student is most ‘raw’ and the most dysregulated [out of control],” Forbes writes, “that you are being presented with an opportunity to create change and healing. It takes interacting from not just a new perspective but from an entirely new paradigm centered in the heart.”

In an article, Teaching Trauma in the Classroom, Forbes concludes: “These children’s issues are not behavioral. They are regulatory. Working at the level of regulation, relationship, and emotional safety addresses more deeply critical forces within these children that go far beyond the exchanges of language, choices, stars and sticker charts.”

Regulation starts in the brain

SEL supports are informed by brain science. OSPI provides a free downloadable handbook, The Heart of Learning and Teaching: Compassion, Resiliency, and Academic Success. Included in Chapter One is a list of the brain regions affected by trauma. Understanding the amygdala as a center for fear, for example, can be critical for designing strategies to manage meltdowns. “Overstimulation of the amygdala…activates fear centers in the brain and results in behaviors consistent with anxiety, hyperarousal and hypervigilance,” the page informs.

Writing for Edutopia, Rebecca Alber recommends that teachers learn to understand and recognize impacts of trauma and to understand that apparent refusal to comply might actually be a trauma-based response.

“When we ask students to do high-level tasks, such as problem solving or design thinking,” Alber says, “it’s nearly impossible if they are in a triggered state of fight, flight, or freeze. This trauma state may look like defiance or anger, and we may perceive this refusal as choice, but it is not necessarily so.”

Use Your Words

Some teachers are turning directly to scientists for advice. Dan Siegel, a well-known neurobiologist and author, offers tips through his agency, Mindsight. Mindsight teaches how to “name and tame” emotions to keep from getting overwhelmed. For example, Siegel suggests learning the difference between these two sentences:

  1. I am sad.
  2. I feel sad.

The first statement “is a kind of limited self-definition,” Siegel argues, while the second statement “suggests the ability to recognize and acknowledge a feeling, without being consumed by it.”

Encourage rather than simply praise

Word choice can be critical in trauma-informed instruction. Jody McVittie, a pediatrician who started Sound Discipline, based in Seattle, gives workshops for parents and teachers. She talks about the difference between praise and encouragement in a training called Building Resiliency. Instead of saying “Great Job,” which can trigger an emotional response but may not reinforce learning, a teacher or parent might say instead:

  • “I noticed that you wrote all of the letters of your name on the line and it was really easy to read.”
  • “I appreciate that you asked some insightful questions during our discussion about the Constitution today.”
  • “I know you can write a creative description of the book you read.”

The more specific the encouragement, McVittie says, the more the student will be encouraged to keep working on that expected behavior. Another of McVittie’s key concepts is “connection before correction” to help teachers create helpful relationships with students. An example she uses in her trainings:

A teenaged student tossed a soda can from across the room during class. A trauma-trained teacher pointed to the hallway, and the boy joined her there. Instead of directing him to the office, the teacher explained that she really enjoyed having him in class. She said that he contributed valuable questions. Then she asked why he thought he was in the hallway. He said it was because he threw the soda can. She asked, “What’s your plan?” His answer included apologies and decision-making about how to avoid the mistake again.

This story certainly could have ended differently, and McVittie encourages educators and parents to avoid a “Dignity Double-Bind,” where children experience shame instead of problem-solving:

“Make the child think,” she says, “by showing respect instead of giving orders to obey.”

A Self-Regulation Strategy for Right Now

Sometimes grace starts with self-care. Following is a breathing practice you can use right now to help your nervous system regulate. If you prefer, you can watch a short video from PAVE that demonstrates this technique: Stop and Settle with Five-Fingers Breath.

You will be breathing evenly as you trace the outline of your hand, giving your eyes and your mind something to focus on while you control your breath.

  • Hold up one hand, with your palm facing you.
  • Place the first finger of your other hand onto the bottom of your thumb.
  • As you breathe in, slide your finger up to the top of your thumb.
  • Breathing out, slide your finger into the valley between your thumb and first finger.
  • Breathing in, slide up your first finger. Breathing out, slide down the other side.
  • Continue following your breath up and down all your fingers.
  • When you breathe out down the outside edge of your pinkie, continue to exhale until you reach your elbow.
  • Notice how you feel. Allow your breath to find a natural pattern.

Now that you’ve learned this technique, you can share it with other family members!