Hybrid- Parent to Parent Coffee & Tea Group

September 19 @ 10:00 am 11:00 am PDT

REGISTER Join us online or in-person! Open to parents and caregivers seeking support to navigate the various emotions and life adjustments of raising a child, youth, and adult with a disability. We can help connect families to Pierce County community resources, fosters relationships with other parents and build a support network for parents feeling isolated.

This group supports:

Open Discussions: During the meetings, parents engage in open and honest discussions about various aspects of parenting children with disabilities. Topics might include navigating the healthcare system, accessing educational resources, managing daily routines, promoting social interactions, and self-care for parents.

Shared Experiences: Parents share their personal experiences, challenges, and strategies they have found effective in raising children with disabilities.

Cultural and Language Sensitivity: Efforts are made to ensure that the group is culturally sensitive and inclusive, respecting the diverse backgrounds and needs of all participants. REGISTER

Free
6316 South 12th St.
Tacoma, Washington 98465
2535652266
View Venue Website

What Parents Need to Know when Disability Impacts Behavior and Discipline at School

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Behavior is a form of communication. When a student struggles with behavior at school, it may be a sign that they need additional support, services, accommodations, or instruction. For students with disabilities, schools must look beyond discipline and consider what will help the student participate meaningfully in school. Repeated requests for early pickup, shortened school days, suspensions, or other lost instructional time can be signs that a different approach is needed to keep the student engaged in learning and making progress at school.

A Brief Overview

  • Behavior support can be part of a student’s right to Free Appropriate Public Education (FAPE).
  • Schools must consider a student’s disability-related needs when behavior affects learning.
  • Repeated requests for early pickup, shortened school days, suspensions, or other lost instructional time can be signs that a different approach is needed to keep a student engaged in learning and making progress at school.
  • Families can request evaluations, school meetings, and the development or revision of behavioral supports.
  • Students continue to have educational rights during disciplinary removals.
  • Families have the right to ask questions, request records, and seek review or appeal when they disagree with discipline decisions.

Introduction

This article explains how school discipline can overlap with disability rights when behavior is connected to a student’s disability, trauma, or unmet support needs. It focuses on these practical questions:

  • When should families ask for evaluation or behavior support?
  • What counts as a removal from school?
  • What must schools consider before relying on suspension, expulsion, shortened school days, or other removals?
  • What rights do students and families have when they disagree with discipline decisions?

When Is Behavior a Sign That More Support Is Needed?

Students with disabilities have the right to the supports and services they need to learn and participate in school, a protection known as Free Appropriate Public Education (FAPE). Guidance from the Office for Civil Rights (OCR) explains that FAPE includes services, supports, and accommodations designed to meet a student’s individual needs, as well as training for school staff so they understand those needs and can effectively implement the student’s supports.

When behavior affects learning, participation, or access to instruction, schools should consider what additional supports, accommodations, services, instruction, or interventions may be needed. The goal is not simply to stop a behavior, but to understand what the behavior may be communicating and identify strategies that help the student succeed.

Behavior supports can take many forms, including:

  • Accommodations
  • Counseling or behavioral health services
  • Social-emotional instruction
  • Positive behavioral supports
  • Changes to an Individualized Education Program (IEP) or Section 504 Plan
  • Behavioral assessment and planning

Schools are required to provide education and support before resorting to discipline for children who struggle with behavior because of their impairments. According to OCR, individualized behavioral supports may include counseling, school social worker services, school-based mental health services, physical activity, and opportunities for a student to visit a counselor or behavioral coach when they need time and space to self-regulate. Counseling and other behavioral health supports can also be written into an IEP as related services when educationally necessary for FAPE.

When Should Families Ask for an Evaluation, Functional Behavior Assessment (FBA), or Behavioral Intervention Plan (BIP)?

An evaluation can be requested at any time if a disability may be affecting a child’s education. Schools also have a responsibility to evaluate when there is reason to suspect a disability is affecting learning, behavior, attendance, or participation in school.

An evaluation or school meeting may be helpful if:

  • A student is frequently suspended.
  • A student is often sent home because of behavior.
  • Behavior is interfering with learning.
  • Existing supports are not working.
  • School staff report ongoing concerns.
  • Instructional time is being lost because of behavior-related issues.

Section 504 does not limit the number of evaluations a student may reasonably request or receive. OCR guidance states that families may request an evaluation at any time and at public expense. Schools also have a responsibility to evaluate when there is reason to believe a disability is affecting a student’s education, known as Child Find.

A Functional Behavioral Assessment (FBA) is a type of evaluation used to better understand the reasons behind challenging behaviors and identify strategies that may help. An FBA is not required before asking for behavior supports. The IEP or 504 team can discuss behavior concerns, review existing supports, and consider changes to a student’s IEP, 504 Plan, or behavior supports at any time. PAVE offers a Sample Letter to Request a Functional Behavioral Assessment, available for download in multiple languages.

One type of behavior support is a Behavior Intervention Plan (BIP). A BIP is a working document that the school and family develop together and review regularly to help a student succeed at school. It focuses on positive supports, skill building, and encouragement rather than punishment.

A BIP may include strategies to:

  • Teach new skills and replacement behaviors
  • Increase positive supports and reinforcement
  • Reduce barriers to learning and participation
  • Prevent future challenges and escalation.

The information gathered through an FBA can be used to develop, review, or revise a BIP when current strategies are not meeting a student’s needs.

More information about participating in the FBA/BIP process is available in PAVE’s video training, Behavior and School: How to Participate in the FBA/BIP Process.

What Happens When Behavior Leads to Discipline?

Washington’s student-discipline rules encourage schools to keep students connected to learning whenever possible and to use responses that are fair and consistent. In 2025, the Office of Superintendent of Public Instruction (OSPI) updated the student-discipline rules and added a definition for discretionary discipline, which refers to situations where school staff have flexibility in choosing how to respond to behavior. Rather than using the same consequence every time, staff may consider the circumstances before deciding on a response.

A student may be removed from a classroom, instructional area, or activity when behavior substantially disrupts learning or creates safety concerns. This type of action is often called a classroom exclusion (WAC 392-400) Time away from the classroom may last for the remainder of the school day, up to the following two school days, or until the teacher and principal (or designee) have met, whichever occurs first. If the exclusion extends beyond those limits, it may be considered a suspension and additional requirements may apply.

District policies must include procedures for informing parents when classroom exclusions occur. Notification must be provided in a language families can understand.

Questions to consider include:

  • Why was the student removed?
  • How long will the exclusion last?
  • What support will help the student return successfully?
  • How is the removal being documented?

Washington’s discipline rules also:

  • Encourage schools to minimize suspensions and expulsions and focus on evidence-based approaches that keep students engaged in learning.
  • Prohibit exclusion because of absences or tardiness.
  • Require absences related to mental health to be excused.
  • Limit exclusionary discipline for behaviors that do not present a safety threat.
  • Require educational services during suspensions and expulsions.

What Counts as a Removal From School?

Any disciplinary action that takes a student away from their regular educational placement can count as a removal from school.

Examples of removals include:

  • Out-of-school suspension
  • In-school suspension
  • Expulsion
  • Emergency removal
  • Removal from class, activities, or part of the school day because of behavior

These actions are also referred to as exclusionary discipline because they remove a student from some or all of their educational program.

Repeated requests to pick up a student early can result in significant missed instruction. Understanding how these removals are affecting the student’s school day can start with a few key questions:

  • How much instruction is my child missing?
  • Are these removals being documented?
  • Why is my child being removed instead of receiving additional support?
  • Does my child need an evaluation, new accommodations, or additional services?

A shortened school day should not be an automatic response to behavior challenges. Before reducing a student’s school day, schools should consider whether additional supports, services, accommodations, instruction, or behavioral interventions could help the student participate successfully in a full day.

If the school reduces a student’s schedule because of behavior, the change could be considered a suspension. OCR’s guidance points out that a shortened school day is an example of a significant change of placement, and that placement changes require a re-evaluation process.

What Rights Continue During Suspensions and Other Removals?

A student’s right to education does not end because of a disciplinary removal. Washington law requires schools to provide educational services during suspensions, expulsions, and emergency removals (WAC 392-400-610). Educational services should help students continue participating in the general education curriculum and making educational progress.

When a student is suspended or expelled, families have the right to ask how educational services will continue, including:

  • What educational services will be provided?
  • How will instruction be delivered?
  • How will assignments be completed?
  • Who should we contact with questions?
  • How will progress be monitored?

Educational services provided in an alternative setting must enable the student to:

  • Continue to participate in the general education curriculum
  • Meet the educational standards established within the district
  • Complete subject, grade-level, and graduation requirements.

Schools must report disciplinary and emergency removals to both the parent or guardian and the state. Written notice must include:

  • A description of the student’s behavior and how it violated district discipline policy.
  • The length of the suspension or expulsion.
  • Information about educational services.
  • Information about the right to request a conference.
  • Information about appeal rights.

The school district must provide notice in a language the student and parent or guardian can understand, including interpretation or translation when needed (WAC 392-400-455). 

What Happens When Families Disagree With a School’s Decision?

Families have the right to ask questions and request information when they disagree with disciplinary actions, evaluation decision, placement change, or denial of services.

Requests may include:

  • Written notice explaining the decision
  • School records related to the incident
  • An evaluation or reevaluation
  • An IEP or Section 504 meeting
  • An FBA or BIP
  • Information about educational services
  • Information about available appeal or dispute-resolution options

Washington’s discipline rules include procedures for notice, conferences, review, and appeals. Students receiving special education services may also have additional protections when disciplinary removals become lengthy or repeated.

When families disagree with decisions about evaluation, services, placement, or discipline, federal and state laws provide rights and dispute-resolution options. PAVE’s articles on dispute resolution and procedural safeguards offer practical guidance for understanding available options and next steps.

If a concern involves disability discrimination, an Office for Civil Rights (OCR) complaint may also be an option.

Learn More

The Governor’s Office of the Education Ombuds (OEO) provides information about Discipline, Suspensions, and Expulsions, and options for resolving concerns when families disagree with school decisions.

Schools are guided by the state to use best practices when evaluating and serving students with special needs. OSPI’s Model Forms for Services to Students in Special Education webpage has links to downloadable forms schools use to develop IEPs, Section 504 Plans, and more, including:

PAVE provides a Behavioral Health Toolkit that includes a video to support development of a Behavior Intervention Plan (BIP).

The Office of Special Education Programs (OSEP) issued guidance in July 2022 that describes federal work underway to improve behavioral supports and reduce disciplinary removal of students receiving special education services. OSEP’s Dear Colleague Letter includes links to a Q and A document about disciplinary requirements and A Guide for Stakeholders.

Online – Awesome Autism Parent Support Group

September 8 @ 12:00 pm 1:00 pm PDT

REGISTER Join us online! The Awesome Autism Parent Support Group is a community dedicated to providing a nurturing and empowering environment for parents and caregivers of children with autism. The primary goal is to offer emotional support, share resources, exchange experiences, and promote a sense of unity among parents, individuals, and families raising and child diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder (ASD).

This group supports:

Inclusive and Welcoming Environment: The support group is a safe space where all parents, regardless of their background or experiences, are welcomed and embraced.

Information Sharing: Valuable information about autism, including the latest research, therapeutic interventions, educational strategies, and community resources, is shared within the group.

Guest Speakers and Workshops: The support group might invite guest speakers, such as autism experts, therapists, educators, and medical professionals, to provide insights and guidance on various topics related to autism and parenting. REGISTER

Free

Online- IEP/504 Plans with Q&A

September 24 @ 10:00 am 11:30 am PDT


Join us for an informative presentation about IEP and 504 Plans, followed by a Q&A session where you can ask questions and learn more about supporting your child at school.

The Zoom link will be emailed one week before the presentation and again one hour before the meeting.

Questions are welcome! We hope you can join us!

In partnership with Parent to Parent of Okanogan County

Free

Free Online -Special Education Series: Using AI to Prepare and Communicate

October 1 @ 11:00 am 12:00 pm PDT

Using AI to Prepare and Communicate: Use AI to prepare for meetings, communicate clearly, and participate with confidence.

Free

This is the last training of an empowering training series that takes place every other Thursday in August-October 2026!
Stay tuned for more events coming up!

Free Online -Special Education Series: Navigating a 504 Plan

September 17 @ 11:00 am 12:00 pm PDT

Navigating a 504 Plan: Explore eligibility, accommodations, and access at school.

Free

This training is part of an empowering training series that takes place every other Thursday in August-October 2026!
Next event:
October 1, 2026

Using AI to Prepare and Communicate Use AI to prepare for meetings, communicate clearly, and participate with confidence.

Free Online -Special Education Series: Starting Strong with an IFSP

September 10 @ 11:00 am 12:00 pm PDT

Starting Strong with an IFSP: Discover how early support services benefit young children and their families.

Free

This training is part of an empowering training series that takes place every other Thursday in August-October 2026!
Next event:
September 17, 2026

Navigating a 504 Plan: Explore eligibility, accommodations, and access at school.

October 1, 2026

Using AI to Prepare and Communicate Use AI to prepare for meetings, communicate clearly, and participate with confidence.

Free Online -Special Education Series: Understanding The Difference – IEPs & 504

August 6 @ 11:00 am 12:00 pm PDT

Understanding The Difference – IEPs & 504: Learn the key differences between IEPs and 504 Plans, including eligibility, rights, & services.

Free

This training is part of an empowering training series that takes place every other Thursday in August-October 2026!
Next event:
August 20, 2026

IDEA Made Simple: Understand special education rights, process, and family participation.

September 3, 2026

Starting Strong with an (IFSP): Discover how early support services benefit young children and their families.

September 17, 2026

Navigating a 504 Plan: Explore eligibility, accommodations, and access at school.

October 1, 2026

Using AI to Prepare and Communicate Use AI to prepare for meetings, communicate clearly, and participate with confidence.

Online- Parent to Parent Coffee & Tea Group

July 27 @ 10:00 am 11:00 am PDT

REGISTER Open to parents and caregivers seeking support to navigate the various emotions and life adjustments of raising a child, youth, and adult with a disability. We can help connect families to Pierce County community resources, fosters relationships with other parents and build a support network for parents feeling isolated.

This group supports:

Open Discussions: During the meetings, parents engage in open and honest discussions about various aspects of parenting children with disabilities. Topics might include navigating the healthcare system, accessing educational resources, managing daily routines, promoting social interactions, and self-care for parents.

Shared Experiences: Parents share their personal experiences, challenges, and strategies they have found effective in raising children with disabilities.

Cultural and Language Sensitivity: Efforts are made to ensure that the group is culturally sensitive and inclusive, respecting the diverse backgrounds and needs of all participants. REGISTER

Free

Hybrid- Parent to Parent Coffee & Tea Group

July 18 @ 10:00 am 11:00 am PDT

REGISTER Join us online or in-person! Open to parents and caregivers seeking support to navigate the various emotions and life adjustments of raising a child, youth, and adult with a disability. We can help connect families to Pierce County community resources, fosters relationships with other parents and build a support network for parents feeling isolated.

This group supports:

Open Discussions: During the meetings, parents engage in open and honest discussions about various aspects of parenting children with disabilities. Topics might include navigating the healthcare system, accessing educational resources, managing daily routines, promoting social interactions, and self-care for parents.

Shared Experiences: Parents share their personal experiences, challenges, and strategies they have found effective in raising children with disabilities.

Cultural and Language Sensitivity: Efforts are made to ensure that the group is culturally sensitive and inclusive, respecting the diverse backgrounds and needs of all participants. REGISTER

Free
6316 South 12th St.
Tacoma, Washington 98465
2535652266
View Venue Website

Online – P2P Early Years Birth – 4 Support

August 10 @ 12:00 pm 1:00 pm PDT

REGISTER Open to parents and caregivers seeking support to navigate the various emotions and life adjustments of raising a child with a disability. We can help connect families to Pierce County community resources, foster relationships with other parents and build a support network for parents feeling isolated.

This group supports:

Open Discussions: During the meetings, parents engage in open and honest discussions about various aspects of parenting children with disabilities. Topics might include navigating the healthcare system, accessing educational resources, managing daily routines, promoting social interactions, and self-care for parents.

Shared Experiences: Parents share their personal experiences, challenges, and strategies they have found effective in raising children with disabilities.

Cultural and Language Sensitivity: Efforts are made to ensure that the group is culturally sensitive and inclusive, respecting the diverse backgrounds and needs of all participants. REGISTER

Free

Online – Quick Connect Virtual Clinics: Focus on Transition Planning

August 4 @ 11:30 am 12:30 pm PDT

504s, IEP & school support services – Focus on Transition Planning

What is Quick Connect?
Join us for a 60 minute virtual clinic with PAVE Parent Resource Coordinators (PRC)

How it works:

  • Join the Zoom session on the scheduled date.

Choose your path:

  • Stay in the main room for general Q&A

Or

  • Enter a private 1:1 breakout with a PAVE team member
  • 1:1 sessions last 15 minutes
  • Need more time? Schedule a follow-up with the same PAVE team member!

Two meeting options each month;

  • First Tuesday of each month from 11:30 am – 12:30 pm
  • Third Saturday of each month from 11:00 am – 12:00 pm
Free

Online – Quick Connect Virtual Clinics Focus on Transition Planning

July 18 @ 11:00 am 12:00 pm PDT

504s, IEP & school support services – Focus on Transition Planning

What is Quick Connect?
Join us for a 60 minute virtual clinic with PAVE Parent Resource Coordinators (PRC)

How it works:

  • Join the Zoom session on the scheduled date.

Choose your path:

  • Stay in the main room for general Q&A

Or

  • Enter a private 1:1 breakout with a PAVE team member
  • 1:1 sessions last 15 minutes
  • Need more time? Schedule a follow-up with the same PAVE team member!

Two meeting options each month;

  • First Tuesday of each month from 11:30 am – 12:30 pm
  • Third Saturday of each month from 11:00 am – 12:00 pm
Free

Online – P2P Lunch & Learn: Back-to-School Ready – 504 Plans, IEPs, & School Supports

August 5 @ 12:00 pm 1:00 pm PDT

REGISTER – Join us as we welcome Marie Kerr of the Parent Training & Information (PTI) team. School is right around the corner…let’s talk all about IEP’s & 504 Plans and school supports. Including Q&A session!

The P2P Lunch-n-Learn is a dedicated time for parents, caregivers, and providers to access presentations and training from PAVE programs and local Pierce County service providers.

Presentation/training topics will vary based on the expressed needs of families in the local community. This group takes place during lunchtime, allowing parents to learn while enjoying a meal in a relaxed and informal setting. REGISTER

Free

Online – P2P Lunch & Learn: Menstrual Hygiene for Girls with I/DD

July 16 @ 12:00 pm 1:00 pm PDT

REGISTER Join Pierce County Parent to Parent (P2P) for a free online Lunch & Learn presented by Teddy Kemirembe, MSW, Founder of Bella Smiles for DD.

This informative session will introduce Bella Smiles for DD’s Strong Girls, Healthy Cycles program and explore practical approaches to menstrual health and hygiene for girls with intellectual and developmental disabilities (I/DD).

Learn how families can support confidence, independence, and healthy self-care habits while navigating menstrual health in a safe, supportive, and empowering environment. REGISTER

Free