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I Have to Sign What? Healthcare in Transition
When young people turn 18, a lot happens. For instance, in Washington State, 18 is the age when a person legally becomes an adult and must handle tasks and make decisions that used to be made for them by adults.
Adult responsibilities and decisions can feel scary and confusing for the unprepared. Becoming responsible for medical care is part of growing up, and that process is so critical that there’s a specific name for it: healthcare transition.
For example, at age 18, a young adult is responsible for signing official paperwork to authorize procedures or therapies and to pay for co-pays. They must sign documents stating who can look at their medical records, speak with their doctors, or attend an appointment with them. Those rules are part of HIPAA, which stands for the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act. HIPAA is a federal law that protects confidentiality, regardless of disability. In this video, young adults living with various disabilities and medical conditions share their journeys through the adult healthcare system. They talk about how they make decisions and how they ask for help. Their ability to explain their needs, make decisions, and speak up for themselves is called self-advocacy. Take a look and listen to what they have to say in their own words!
Learning these skills isn’t something that happens the minute you turn 18. It takes practice to learn how to ask questions at the doctor’s office, to remember to ask about medications, to bring your insurance card. If you are a youth or young adult, those are things you can start early. If you are a caregiver or parent, begin giving your young adult or child questions to ask the doctor when they go in for well-child checks at age 12 or 13. Start talking with them about the conditions they may have and answer any questions they have honestly. If they are aware of why their body is doing what it is doing they can better manage their needs and ask for help when they need it. Help them learn to manage medicine with medicine reminder apps and pill containers. These kinds of things not only set them up for success when they are 18 at the doctor’s office, but also helps them advocate better for what they need in school and the community.
Here are some great sites that provide comprehensive step by step guidance to this process. See what fits best for yourself as a young adult; parents and guardians can think about what fits your family from their point of view.
- Got Transition has great tools and videos for youth, families, and providers. Young adults and families developed it, so it is peer-based.
- Charting the LifeCourse™ was created by families to help individuals and families of all abilities and all ages develop a vision for a good life, including their health care.
- The Center for Transition to Adult Health Care for Youth with Disabilities is a national health care transition resource center. The goal of the center is to empower youth and young adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities (ID/DD), ages 12-26, to direct their own transition from pediatric to adult care, with no reduction in quality of care and no gaps in services.
Including Healthcare Needs and Goals in the Transition Plan
Healthcare transition is often left out of the transition process and left to parents and students to do themselves. Parents, students, and everyone on the IEP team should think about how health and healthcare can affect a student’s goals for college, work, and living on their own. Parents and students can ask that this be a part of the transition plan and can use the resources listed above in the planning process.


Insurance in Healthcare Transition
Healthcare transition, like all other aspects of transitioning to adult community living, employment, and services, can be difficult. However, if teenagers and families plan ahead for the healthcare changes that occur when a child becomes an adult, things can go more smoothly and successfully. Here are some resources and information to help make the transition to adult care effectively and give young adults more confidence and self-assurance.
There are two main components for individuals transitioning from pediatric (children) to adult health care:
- New medical providers and systems, including changes in insurance
- The young adult’s new responsibility of being in charge of their own health care
Health Insurance and Providers
Whether an individual is on Medicaid, Medicare, or private health insurance, eligibility, costs, and covered services may change.
Washington’s Medicaid option, Apple Health, has different financial requirements for adults than it does for minors. The type of Medicaid a youth has before age 18 may change depending on the source of their income or benefits when they turn 18.
If the disability is significant, a student or young person may be on classic Medicaid. When they turn 18, they must contact the managed care organization (MCO) that is their current healthcare provider (Molina, Community Healthcare, Well Point, etc.) and:
- Confirm who their current healthcare provider is
- Confirm their own current address
They must do this every 12 months.
If the youth is not
- on Supplemental Security Income (SSI),
- receiving Developmental Disability (DDA/DDCS) services,
- or receiving state benefits for the blind such as Aging, Blind, or Disabled (ABD) Cash Assistance or State Supplementary Payment (SSP),
then they may be on Medicaid through the healthcare exchange, the Washington Health Plan Finder.
At 18, Washington youth are required to apply for or renew Apple Health by going to the Health Plan Finder website. Even if an individual is not eligible for fully subsidized (paid) healthcare, the Health Plan Finder can reveal some low-priced options.
Young adults who are on their parents’ private insurance will be covered under their parents’ plan until they are 26, unless the young adult works and are covered through an employer-based plan. When they turn 26, if they are not working and are not covered by SSI/SSDI, DDA/DDCS services, or any other disability based supports, they will need to apply for their own health insurance. Again, the Health Plan Finder can help you find affordable options, including Apple Health.
For individuals under 65 who are receiving Medicare due to a disability, insurance should not change due to the transition to adulthood. It is important to know which doctors can treat an individual’s conditions and whether an insurance plan includes those doctors. To find out, call the MCO/health provider’s helpline or view their website to find out whether those doctors are included in their insurance plan. The doctor’s office will also give information on which plans they accept and which ones they don’t.
Taking on Responsibility for Health Care and Decisions
Healthcare is just one of many new responsibilities that young people take on as they become adults. Parents can avoid overwhelming a teen with new obligations, by beginning with giving younger teens options and increasing tasks to help them adapt to this change. There are several resources for families and youth to use in this transition:
- Family to Family has a youth-written curriculum about Transitioning to Adult Doctors to help teens start their medical transition journeys.
- Charting the LifeCourse™ was created by families to help individuals and families of all abilities and all ages develop a vision for a good life, including their health care.
- Got Transition is a comprehensive website about the transition to adult health care, with quizzes, FAQs, and timelines to make it easier to understand.
- The Center for Transition to Adult Health Care for Youth with Disabilities is a national health care transition resource center. The goal of the center is to empower youth and young adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities (ID/DD) ages 12-26 to direct their own transition from pediatric to adult care with no reduction in quality of care and no gaps in service.
Beyond these resources, the most useful resource are young adults themselves. Whether you are a parent/caregiver or a transitioning individual, it’s important to recognize that lived experience provides knowledge, even in a new situation. Parents, caregivers, and young adults have knowledge of medical needs that may not be in a chart. They know about the emotional or behavioral challenges a young person has. They know the youths’ strengths, areas for growth, other important things only an individual and their family know.
Write out what you feel is most important in your health care journey over the next 5 years. What do you need to know from doctors? What do you need to know about school and work? What do you need to know about your condition? Be curious and remember what you have already done to take care of yourself. Ask your parents and caregivers about what they see as important over the next few years. Take the time to explore, then start the transition journey to adult care with an idea of what you would like.
Another group to consult are your current medical providers and specialists. They have helped many other teens transition to adult healthcare, and they are a part of developing the care plan, a critical resource for transitioning to an unfamiliar doctor or clinic when a young adult may have complex care needs. Doctors’ office staff are also used to dealing with these issues and may have some good planning advice for families. Lastly, advice from families who have already helped a child transition to adult care can know what to do and what not to do! Parent-to-Parent can match parents up with families who have already gone through such transitions with those who seek their knowledge and experience. Informing Families has some good basic resources on its website for getting started.

Including Health Considerations in the Transition Plan
Parents, Students, and everyone on the IEP team should think about how health and healthcare can affect a student’s goals for college, work and living on their own. PAVE has made a fillable form that you can download when starting to think about this area in transition.

Download the document Including Health Considerations in the Transition Plan
Autism Spectrum Disorder: Information and Resources for Families
Autism spectrum disorder can affect how a person talks, learns, and relates to others, and every individual is different. Families can learn about early signs, get help with evaluations, and find supports for school and daily life. With the right resources and support, individuals with autism can learn, grow, and thrive in their community.
A Brief Overview
- Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a spectrum condition with varied signs and symptoms. It involves challenges in multiple areas, including social skills, emotional regulation, communication, and behavior.
- ASD can appear differently from one person to the next, and as a child develops from infancy through adulthood. Families concerned about a child’s development can call the state’s Family Health Hotline at 1-800-322-2588. This toll-free number offers help in English, Spanish, and other languages.
- Parents of infants and toddlers aged 0-3 with developmental concerns may benefit from the services provided by the Early Support for Infants and Toddlers (ESIT) program, which provides specialized services and support that are crucial during the early and highly formative years of a child’s life.
- Students with ASD may qualify for school-based services through an Individualized Education Program (IEP) if their disability significantly impacts educational access. These services are determined through evaluations that can include various related conditions. A medical diagnosis is not required for school-based evaluations or interventions.
- The Developmental Disabilities Administration (DDA/DDCS) accepts diagnoses from Autism Centers of Excellence (COEs) as a component of DDA services eligibility, except for naturopathic providers.
- Connecting with other families to share and learn from experiences is invaluable, and there is a wealth of resources available to assist those seeking support and information in Washington State. Parent to Parent (P2P) programs across various counties provide free training and support, with support groups tailored to cultural and linguistic communities such as Spanish-speaking and Black & African American families.
- PAVE provides support to families navigating various healthcare systems related to disability. Fill out a Support Request for direct support and click on the “Health and Wellness” link to get connected with individual support.
Autism, Neurodiversity, and Families
Parents of individuals with autism have many different experiences when watching their child’s development, navigating school years and relationships, and building community and belonging. When developmental milestones aren’t met in typical timeframes, families may seek a diagnosis, medical interventions, and/or support from school.
CDC numbers show that 1 in 36 children have ASD, and 2.8% of 8-year-old children have a diagnosis of ASD. According to Washington’s Department of Health (DOH), between 23,000-48,000 of the state’s children have some form of diagnosed ASD.
April is Autism Acceptance Month, providing an opportunity to think about challenges and celebrations of individuals who experience neurodiversity. Neurodiversity is a word used to capture the range of differences in the ways that humans function and experience the world. Much of the Autistic community rallies to honor neurodiversity, uplift the voices of self-advocates, and forward the movement of civil and social rights.
To promote dignity, neurodiversity, and empowerment, many autistic self-advocates prefer identity-first language, such as “autistic person” instead of person-first language like “person with autism.” This approach recognizes autism as an integral and inseparable part of an individual’s identity.
What is Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)?
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is referred to as a “spectrum”, which means that signs and symptoms vary among individuals. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) defines Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) as “a developmental disability that can cause significant social, communication and behavioral challenges.
“There is often nothing about how people with ASD look that sets them apart from other people, but people with ASD may communicate, interact, behave, and learn in ways that are different from most other people. The learning, thinking, and problem-solving abilities of people with ASD can range from gifted to severely challenged. Some people with ASD need a lot of help in their daily lives; others need less.”
A diagnosis of ASD includes several conditions that were formerly diagnosed separately, including autistic disorder, pervasive developmental disorder not otherwise specified (PDD-NOS), and Asperger syndrome. A short YouTube video by Osmosis.org provides an overview of ASD.
Autism Indicators and Markers Across the Lifespan
People with ASD may struggle with social, emotional, and communication skills. They might repeat certain behaviors or have rigid ideas about routines. Indicators of ASD often begin during early childhood and typically last throughout life. Professor and autism self-advocate, Dr. Stephen Shore said, “If you’ve met one person with autism, you’ve met one person with autism.” ASD can appear differently from one person to the next, and as a child develops from infancy through adulthood. There are services and supports available at each stage of development and life.
Early Childhood Indicators and Supports
The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that all children have a developmental screening at every well-child check-up, with an autism screening at 18 months of age and again between ages 2 and 3. To encourage early screening and intervention, the CDC provides developmental milestone trackers for children Birth-5, including a Milestone Tracker App. State-specific information about early screening recommendations and guidance is available from the Washington Department of Health (DOH). Families concerned about a child’s development can call the state’s Family Health Hotline at 1-800-322-2588. This toll-free number offers help in English, Spanish, and other languages.
- Not pointing at objects, such as an airplane flying overhead, or looking when someone else points
- Not wanting to be held or cuddled
- Repeating or echoing words, phrases, or actions
Several state agencies collaborated to publish Early Learning and Development Guidelines. The booklet includes information about what children can do and learn at different stages of development, focused on birth through third grade. A free downloadable version is available in English, Somali, and Spanish on the Washington State Department of Children, Youth & Families (DCYF) website. An English translation is also available on the Office of the Superintendent of Public Instruction (OSPI) Early Learning Resources page.
Parents of infants and toddlers aged 0-3 with developmental concerns may benefit from the services provided by the Early Support for Infants and Toddlers (ESIT) program, which provides specialized services and support that are crucial during the early and highly formative years of a child’s life. Early intervention services through ESIT not only support the child’s immediate developmental needs but also lays a foundation for their future learning and adaptation. ESIT provides the following:
Early Evaluation and Identification: ESIT helps in the early identification of developmental delays or disabilities, including autism, through assessments conducted by a team of professionals. These evaluations focus on key developmental areas such as motor skills, cognition, communication, social interaction, and self-help skills. Early diagnosis is crucial for autism, as it can lead to early intervention, which is shown to improve outcomes.
Services and Supports: Once a child is evaluated and deemed eligible, they receive an Individualized Family Service Plan (IFSP) under Part C of the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA). This plan is tailored to meet the unique developmental needs of the child and considers the family’s resources, priorities, and concerns. The IFSP includes detailed information on the child’s current development levels, the specific interventions planned, and the expected outcomes. Through ESIT, children can access a wide range of early intervention services designed to address specific developmental needs associated with ASD.
Family-Centered Approach: The family plays a crucial role in the development and implementation of the IFSP. Family Resource Coordinators (FRCs) assist families in understanding their child’s needs, the available services, and the implementation of the intervention plan. This inclusive approach ensures that the family’s needs and goals are addressed, promoting a supportive environment for the child.
The ESIT website includes videos to guide family caregivers and a collection of Parent Rights and Leadership resources, with multiple language options.
Parents may also contact their local school district for evaluation. Regardless of whether a student is medically diagnosed with ASD, a school district has the affirmative duty to seek out, evaluate and serve—if eligible—any child within its boundaries who has a known or suspected disability condition that may significantly impact access to learning (Child Find Mandate). Child Find applies to IDEA’s Part B IEP services for children ages 3-21 and to IDEA’s Part C early intervention services for children Birth-3. See PAVE’s article about early intervention services for more information.
Supporting a Student with ASD
Children and youth in adolescence may demonstrate the following characteristics of ASD:
- Avoiding eye contact or making excessive eye contact
- Uncertainty in understanding what facial expressions or tones of voice mean
- Not understanding sarcasm, figures of speech, or metaphors
Autism is an eligibility category for a student to receive school-based services through an Individualized Education Program (IEP). The categories are defined by the federal Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA). State law further defines the categories and criteria for intervention.
The Washington Administrative Code that describes IEP eligibility (WAC 392-172A-01035) describes Autism as “a developmental disability significantly affecting verbal and nonverbal communication and social interaction, generally evident before age three, that adversely affects a student’s educational performance. Other characteristics often associated with autism are engagement in repetitive activities and stereotyped movements, resistance to environmental change or change in daily routines, and unusual responses to sensory experiences.”
Schools have specific evaluation tools to determine how the features of an autistic disorder might impact school. Evaluations can also determine eligibility based on health impairments (for example, ADHD), speech delays, learning disabilities, or emotional behavioral conditions that might co-occur with autism. See PAVE’s article about evaluation process for more information, including a list of all IDEA eligibility categories.
In short, a student is eligible for an Individualized Education Program (IEP) if the evaluation determines:
- The student has a disability
- The disability significantly impacts access to education
- The student requires Specially Designed Instruction (SDI) and/or Related Services
Not every student with ASD is eligible for school-based services through an IEP. Some may have “major life activity” impacts to qualify for a Section 504 Plan, which can accommodate a student within general education. Section 504 provides anti-discrimination protections as part of the Rehabilitation Act of 1973. Keep in mind that students with IEPs have disability-related protections from IDEA and Section 504. Additional protections are part of the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA). See PAVE’s article about disability history for additional information.
A diagnosis is not required to provide special education or related services. If the school district requires a comprehensive medical evaluation, they may request permission from the parent to have the child evaluated at the district’s expense (WAC 392-172A-03020).
Getting Supports: Where to Start
Families whose children experience autism may need services beyond school. Speech, Occupational Therapy, Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) therapies, and other services may be available through insurance if they are determined to be medically necessary. The state Health Care Authority provides information about ABA resources and how to seek approval from public insurance (Apple Health) for specific therapies. HCA also hosts a list of Contracted ABA providers in Washington State.
Diagnosing ASD can be difficult since it can appear differently from one person to another, and indicators change depending on the chronological and developmental age of the individual. Doctors look at the person’s behavior and development to make a diagnosis. The diagnostic process usually takes a while, lasting years in some cases. In addition to working through insurance and health systems, you may encounter barriers when identifying providers who can diagnose within the age range of the individual.
Medical diagnoses in Washington are provided by Autism Centers of Excellence (COEs). An Autism COE may be a health care provider, medical practice, psychology practice, or multidisciplinary assessment team that has completed a certification training authorized by the state’s Health Care Authority (HCA). Physicians, nurse practitioners, and pediatric primary care naturopaths are eligible to apply for COE training and endorsement. The Developmental Disabilities Administration (DDA) accepts diagnoses from COEs as a component of DDA services eligibility, except for naturopathic providers.
Locate screening and diagnostic services in your location at ParentHelp123. If insurance doesn’t cover the full cost of diagnosis, check with the diagnostician to identify sliding scale or other payment options.
PAVE provides support to families navigating various healthcare systems related to disability. Fill out a Support Request for direct support and click on the “Health and Wellness” link to be directed with individual support.
Building Community Connections
Connecting with other families to share and learn from experiences is invaluable, and there is a wealth of resources available to assist those seeking support and information in Washington State. These resources include various programs and organizations tailored to meet specific needs, with some services focusing on race, cultural identity, and language. By tapping into these resources, families and individuals can find not only support but also a sense of belonging within a community that understands their unique challenges and perspectives.
Parent to Parent (P2P) of Pierce County, a program of PAVE, partners with Pierce County Human Services and The Arc of Washington State to provide No Cost training and support. PAVE’s Pierce “Parent 2 Parent Support Groups” offers a nurturing space for caregivers to connect, share experiences, and find guidance. Support groups specific to a cultural and linguistic community (Spanish-speaking, and Black & African American families) will be supported by a PAVE facilitator that is a cultural/linguistic match for the families served.
Parent to Parent (P2P) programs across various counties provide free training and support, with support groups tailored to cultural and linguistic communities such as Spanish-speaking and Black & African American families. P2P of Yakima, Walla Walla, Chelan/Douglas, Benton/Franklin, Skagit, Snohomish, Whatcom, Grays Harbor/Pacific, Clark, Klickitat, Lewis, Skamania, and Grant counties provide Spanish-speaking support, events, and resources. P2P King County supports Spanish-speaking and African American families. P2P of Snohomish also provides Arabic and Russian parent support groups.
Informing Families provides navigational supports for all ages, including referral to culturally responsive programs and services, such as Vietnamese Family Autism Advisory Board (VFAAB), Odessa Brown Children’s Clinic (OBCC), and Families of Color Seattle (FOCS).
The South Sound Autism Partnership is a collaborative network dedicated to raising awareness, acceptance, and advocacy for autism. SSAP aims to support and enact positive change within the community through monthly online meetings. Recordings of guest speakers at previous meetings and meeting notes are available on the SSAP website.
Learn More
The downloadable Autism Guidebook for Washington State, published by a dedicated Autism Task Force in collaboration with DOH and other agencies, offers a comprehensive resource for families, educators, medical professionals, and care providers. It features a detailed Autism Lifespan Resource Directory, diagnostic and special education eligibility criteria, and recommended intervention.
Another guidebook, the Pierce County Parent Coalition (PC2) Resource Guide, contains clickable and searchable links to services throughout the state.
The University of Washington Autism Center provides a manageable place to begin with a small collection of resource categories that include online tools, early recognition, organization, and neurodiversity. Within its online tools, UW maintains lists of organizations that provide advocacy, assessments, intervention services, and research/training. UW Autism Center’s Autism Spectrum 360 (AS360) helps autistic people, families, and providers easily find services, learn about autism across the lifespan, and connect with community resources, such as the recorded webinar “Could I Be Autistic?”
Washington Autism Alliance (WAA) provides free support for families navigating insurance and medical systems and can help with DDA applications. WAA’s website requests families to join the agency by providing basic information before they navigate to request an intake. Note that while basic services are free from WAA, the agency may charge a fee based on a sliding scale if families request legal services from an attorney.
The Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN) shares resources by autistic individuals with lived experience for people who have autism spectrum disorders, including a welcome kit for newly diagnosed individuals: Welcome to the Autistic Community! The DOH website links to family supports and services for individuals of all ages, including links to Regional Genetic Clinics.
Asking for Help is a Selfless Act for Family Caregivers
Many family caregivers find it difficult to ask for help in taking care of their loved ones. Whether it’s because they don’t want to burden others, not wanting to admit they need help, or feel that it’s “something that family does”, caregivers often don’t ask for help, or they reject help when it is offered. Despite the best intentions behind this, it’s not good for the caregiver or the person they care for. Overburdened and overwhelmed caregivers are not as effective at caregiving. Their loved one, who can tell that their caregiver is exhausted, may feel frustrated and guilty. Getting assistance from outside sources is helpful for everyone. Use these ideas to begin!
Start small: Ease into taking caregiving breaks (respite breaks). If a friend or family member offers to stay with your loved one, make the first respite break short. Have them take over care while you take a shower, run an errand, or take a walk. These short breaks will allow your friend or family member to get a feel for caregiving and allow you and the person you care for to adjust. This easing into respite can be especially important if the person you care for is an individual with intellectual or developmental disabilities or a person with dementia who has trouble adjusting to change.
Think about the interests and strengths of your friends and family. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, things they enjoy and things they dislike. Keep these in mind when using a family member or friend to help with caregiving. Allow your cousin who loves to cook to make a meal and your neighbor who loves to drive around town take your loved one to appointments. If a potential caregiver and your loved one have something in common that they enjoy, all the better.
Be prepared: Before anyone starts helping, put together a full sheet of information on the person you care for. This should include medications, schedule, likes and dislikes, and emergency contact information. Include what you want the caregiver to do, like help with bathing, cooking, or exercises.
Timing is everything: Ask for help in respite care during a time that is convenient for the potential respite caregiver. This means contacting them at a time when you know they will not be busy and asking their help at times when they are not working or are busy with other responsibilities. If you don’t know their specific schedule, ask when they might be free to help.
Be honest: When you ask for caregiving help, honesty is the best policy. Explain to the potential caregiver why you need a break, and why you think they would be a great person to help fill that gap. Also be up front about your concerns, as they will help the potential caregiver decide if they feel comfortable helping.
Accept the word “no”: Not everyone is comfortable being a caregiver, even if they have been one in the past. People’s lives are busy, they have plenty of other stress, and sometimes they have private issues that would keep them from being a respite caregiver. This doesn’t mean that they care about you or your loved one any less; it just means that they are not mentally or physically able to help in this manner. You can always ask for other forms of help, like having them run errands for you when you are too busy or bringing a meal occasionally. Allowing someone to say no to caregiving but still help when needed is valuable to everyone involved.
Plan ahead: You never know when you will need emergency respite, so having a couple of people on standby who have some experience in caregiving for your loved one is essential. Read more about planning for emergency respite in our article “Do You Have an Emergency Respite Plan?”
Share the care: Just as no single person should have to be completely responsible for another person’s care, so there should be more than one respite caregiver. Think critically about your own friends and family who would be willing to help, along with the friends and family of the person who needs care, some of whom you may not know as well. They may wish to help, but don’t know how to ask. Having several people help from time to time means none of them get burnt out, and your loved one gets to see an array of friendly faces.
What about reaching beyond family and immediate friends to the groups in which you have been active, such as your exercise class members, your faith community, your parent group, etc. You might say something like “I haven’t been to book group in a while because I’ve been caring for my father, and I’m badly in need of a break. Do you think you might be able to come over and read to Dad for an hour next week?”
Think about professional respite care: There are a variety of ways to afford professional services for the person receiving care. Explore these resources from PAVE:
- Respite Offers a Break for Caregivers and Those They Support has information on different sources of respite care in WA State, many of which cover some or all the cost of care.
- Resources for Family Caregivers: Lifespan Respite WA, a program of PAVE, offers this webpage with a variety of information including financial support for respite breaks.
Online – Parent to Parent Coffee & Tea
April 18 @ 10:00 am – 11:00 am PDT
REGISTER Open to parents and caregivers seeking support to navigate the various emotions and life adjustments of raising a child, youth, and adult with a disability. We can help connect families to Pierce County community resources, fosters relationships with other parents and build a support network for parents feeling isolated.
This group supports:
Open Discussions: During the meetings, parents engage in open and honest discussions about various aspects of parenting children with disabilities. Topics might include navigating the healthcare system, accessing educational resources, managing daily routines, promoting social interactions, and self-care for parents.
Shared Experiences: Parents share their personal experiences, challenges, and strategies they have found effective in raising children with disabilities.
Cultural and Language Sensitivity: Efforts are made to ensure that the group is culturally sensitive and inclusive, respecting the diverse backgrounds and needs of all participants. REGISTER
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Online – Parent to Parent Coffee & Tea
April 27 @ 10:00 am – 11:00 am PDT
REGISTER Open to parents and caregivers seeking support to navigate the various emotions and life adjustments of raising a child, youth, and adult with a disability. We can help connect families to Pierce County community resources, fosters relationships with other parents and build a support network for parents feeling isolated.
This group supports:
Open Discussions: During the meetings, parents engage in open and honest discussions about various aspects of parenting children with disabilities. Topics might include navigating the healthcare system, accessing educational resources, managing daily routines, promoting social interactions, and self-care for parents.
Shared Experiences: Parents share their personal experiences, challenges, and strategies they have found effective in raising children with disabilities.
Cultural and Language Sensitivity: Efforts are made to ensure that the group is culturally sensitive and inclusive, respecting the diverse backgrounds and needs of all participants. REGISTER
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Online – Pierce County P2P Helping Parent Training
May 22 @ 9:00 am – 12:00 pm PDT
REGISTER Pierce County Parent to Parent partners with The Arc of Washington and Pierce County Community Connections to provide support, information, and education for parents of children with disabilities and special healthcare needs.
This is the required training to become a 1:1 helping parent volunteer and support other parents who have just learned their child has a condition or need support for any reason.
What is a “Helping Parent?”
A Helping Parent is a parent or guardian of a child with a disability, developmental delay, or ongoing medical need who has completed training from the Parent to Parent (P2P) Program. Helping Parents are thoughtfully matched with families whose children have similar experiences or diagnoses. Through one-on-one emotional and informational support, they offer understanding, encouragement, and shared wisdom. At the heart of this connection is the message: “I’ve been there—I understand.”
What Will I Learn?
- Emotional Support Strategies
- Emotional Responses
- Self-Care Strategies
- The Match Process
- Empowerment
- Communication & Active Listening
- Volunteer Expectations
- Ways to volunteer
- PAVE Programs
- Local Resources
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Online – Awesome Autism Parent Support Group
April 23 @ 11:00 am – 12:00 pm PDT
REGISTER The Awesome Autism Parent Support Group is a community dedicated to providing a nurturing and empowering environment for parents and caregivers of children with autism. The primary goal is to offer emotional support, share resources, exchange experiences, and promote a sense of unity among parents, individuals, and families raising and child diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder (ASD).
This group supports:
Inclusive and Welcoming Environment: The support group is a safe space where all parents, regardless of their background or experiences, are welcomed and embraced.
Information Sharing: Valuable information about autism, including the latest research, therapeutic interventions, educational strategies, and community resources, is shared within the group.
Guest Speakers and Workshops: The support group might invite guest speakers, such as autism experts, therapists, educators, and medical professionals, to provide insights and guidance on various topics related to autism and parenting. REGISTER
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Online – P2P Lunch & Learn: Managing Expectations When Routines Are Broken
May 18 @ 12:00 pm – 1:00 pm PDT
REGISTER: Join us as we welcome Kyo Autism Therapy, as we discuss Managing Expectations When Routines Are Broken.
The P2P Lunch-n-Learn is a dedicated time for parents, caregivers, and providers to access presentations and training from PAVE programs and local Pierce County service providers.
Presentation/training topics will vary based on the expressed needs of families in the local community. This group takes place during lunchtime, allowing parents to learn while enjoying a meal in a relaxed and informal setting. REGISTER.
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Online – P2P Lunch & Learn: Homeschooling in Washington State
May 12 @ 12:00 pm – 1:00 pm PDT
REGISTER: Please join us to learn about the key aspects of homeschooling in Washington State as we welcome the Washington Homeschool Organization.
The P2P Lunch-n-Learn is a dedicated time for parents, caregivers, and providers to access presentations and training from PAVE programs and local Pierce County service providers.
Presentation/training topics will vary based on the expressed needs of families in the local community. This group takes place during lunchtime, allowing parents to learn while enjoying a meal in a relaxed and informal setting. REGISTER.
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Online – Special Education Workshops
April 23 @ 6:00 pm – 7:00 pm PDT
Present Levels & SMART Goals: Connecting the Dots in the IEP
Discover how to align present levels with meaningful, measurable SMART IEP goals that drive progress.
Presenter: Sherry Mashburn
November 20 @ 6-7 PM
Special Education Eligibility: How Schools Decide / Elegibilidad para Educación Especial: Cómo Deciden las Escuelas
Get a clear look at how school districts determine eligibility, the evaluation process, and what it means for your child’s access to special education services. / Obtenga una visión clara de cómo los distritos escolares determinan la elegibilidad, el proceso de evaluación y lo que esto significa para el acceso de tu hijo(a) a los servicios de educación especial.
January 15 @ 6-7 PM
Accommodations, Modifications, and SDI: What’s the Difference?
Discover how to align present levels with meaningful, measurable SMART IEP goals that drive progress.
Presenter: Marie Kerr
February 19 @ 6-7 PM
Discipline in Schools: What Parents Need to Know
Explore how discipline works for students with IEPs, including suspension rules, manifestation determinations, and how schools must balance safety with your child’s rights.
Presenter: Sherry Mashburn
April 23 @ 6-7 PM
High School Transition Planning: Preparing for What’s Next / Planificación de la Transición en la Escuela Secundaria: Preparándose para lo que Sigue
Learn how transition plans prepare your child for life after high school, college, work, and independent living, and how to make sure the plan reflects your child’s voice. / Aprende cómo los planes de transición preparan a tu hijo(a) para la vida después de la escuela secundaria, la universidad, el trabajo y la vida independiente, y cómo segurarte de que el plan refleje la voz de tu hijo(a).
May 21 @ 6-7 PM
Inclusion & Belonging: What Parents Should Know
Learn how inclusionary practices help students with disabilities access the general education classroom, build friendships, and thrive, while benefiting all students.
Presenter: Marie Kerr
No registration is required!
Click to join via zoom! – Meeting ID: 737 702 3071
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In-Person: Pierce County P2P Spring Break Family Event
April 8 @ 12:00 pm – 2:00 pm PDT
REGISTER: PAVE’s Pierce County Parent to Parent (P2P) invites families to stop by for a welcoming afternoon of connection, resources, and community. Families will have the opportunity to meet other parents, learn about local supports for children and youth with disabilities, and enjoy a relaxed space with activities for kids. Registering in advance is encouraged and helps us plan, but families are also welcome to drop in. REGISTER.
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Tools 4 Success Conference
March 24 @ 8:00 am – 1:00 pm PDT
What is the Tools 4 Success Conference?
A free, in-person conference designed for transition youth, young adults, and community members who experience a disability to dream, imagine and shape their future! The conference focuses on career and college readiness to empower conference attendees who experience a disability. All of us need a circle of support.
The Tools 4 Success Conference brings community members who experience a disability to share their lived experience, wisdom, insights, information, resources, and more!
Conference Date: March 24, 2026
Location: Tacoma Community College!
Conference agenda:
- 8:00 – 8:30 – Registration
- 8:30 – 9:15 – First Session
- 9:25-10:10 – Second Session
- 10:20-11:05 – Third Session
- 11:10 – Lunch
- Resource Booths 9:30 -12:00, Bldg. 13
- 12:00 – 1:00 pm Keynote speaker
Please fill out the registration form. After you submit your registration, you will receive a confirmation email and then a few days before March 24th you will receive a reminder email with any more important information.
Click to register to the T4S Conference!
Visit the Tools4SuccessConference website for more info.
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Online – P2P Lunch & Learn: IEP’s & 504 Plans
March 26 @ 11:00 am – 12:00 pm PDT
REGISTER: Join us as we welcome Marie Kerr of the Parent Training & Information (PTI) team. Let’s talk all about IEP’s & 504 Plans. Including Q&A session!
The P2P Lunch-n-Learn is a dedicated time for parents, caregivers, and providers to access presentations and training from PAVE programs and local Pierce County service providers.
Presentation/training topics will vary based on the expressed needs of families in the local community. This group takes place during lunchtime, allowing parents to learn while enjoying a meal in a relaxed and informal setting. REGISTER.



